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ISOLATED
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The Secret Language of Birthdays
The Secret Language of Relationships
The Secret Language of Destiny
THE AUTHOR
Gary Goldschneider
1939—2019
    Gary Goldschneider developed The Secret Language during his 40 year study of the life stories of more than 20,000 people.
THE SECRET LANGUAGE OF
BIRTHDAYS & RELATIONSHIPS
© 1994-2025, Gary Goldschneider, Thomas Rezek
Joost Elffers.  Circular Reference LLC
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I was born during
THE DAY OF
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The Secret Language
365 Days
48 Weeks
12 Months
Mar 21-
Apr 20
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THE DYNAMO
Apr 21-
May 20
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May 21-
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4 Seasons
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Dec 21
THE SEASON OF
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Dec 21-
Mar 21
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48 Ways
2,304 Paths
1,176 Relationships
THE SECRET LANGUAGE OF
BIRTHDAYS & RELATIONSHIPS
© 1994-2025, Gary Goldschneider, Thomas Rezek
Joost Elffers.  Circular Reference LLC
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